the right time

timing IS important. there’s a lot of learning and growing up that a person needs to do, before she/he can be in a full-fledged relationship (what i’d like to call a ‘real’ relationship).

so far in my life i’ve encountered those who would otherwise be perfect, except for some under-development in several areas of their lives/personality/motivations/vision of life/etc etc.

i guess that’s why couples who’ve broken up in the past can meet again at present time, and things start heating up again. also the reason why he seemed to be just the perfect guy, but you just can’t seem to progress further in the relationship. reason for the first case was because the guy is now developed, while for the second one it’s because he is still under-developed at the moment.

and it’s not just him/her/your partner, it’s also you. everything could be so perfect, but there’s something inside you that is still unsure about things. something about you that still needs answers and some soul searching. in this case it means you’re the one not ready/under-developed.



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